曾經上過一堂很有趣的課﹐
內容是說人的思想行為模式﹐可以用四種顏色來代表。
當然, 沒有一個人是單一一種顏色的﹔
通常都是以其中一或兩個顏色為主導﹐
而其他的顏色則比較沒有那麼明顯。
在上這堂課之前我們必須填一份問卷﹐大約有三十幾題的問題﹐
而上完課後﹐我們則會收到一份關於我們自己的性格﹑優缺點的詳細分析。
(我個人覺得那份分析報告挺準的﹐準確度高達90%)
上完這堂課﹐我就很興奮的告訴馬少﹐他絕對是以黃色作為主導的人﹐而我是藍色。
怎麼說呢? 舉個例子 :
我 : 要不要去看 XXXX 這部電影?
馬少 : 那個女主角最近好像肥了﹐導演曾導過 YYYY, ABC, ZZZZ, 那個男主角得過奧斯卡金像獎﹐劇本。。。。。 (以下省略100個字)
我 : =.=||| 那你到底要不要看? 。。。。。。。
黃色為主導的人講話愛兜圈子﹐而且是兜了八百里都兜不到重點那種﹔
而藍色的就很直接﹐要或不要。
這兩種人在一起的结果﹐就像是急先鋒遇上慢郎中﹐
藍色的人如果不想血壓過高﹐絕對需要去練練瑜伽之類的活動。 😛
以下有關四種顏色的性格和缺點摘要﹐是我從課程里抄下來的﹐
大家不妨看看﹐當作參考。
藍 Cool Blue:
Gifts : Knowledge, detail, asks, probing questions, thorough follow up, accuracy, precision
Liabilities : Interaction may be difficult or stuffy, questions may be seen as critical & insensitive, overlooks others’ feeling, focus on inconsequential detials
綠 Earth Green﹑
Gifts : build deep, long term relationships, natural listener, sincere & warm, presistent
Liabilities : slow to adapt and may be reluctant to change, slow decision making, avoids rejection, takes difficulties personally
黃 Sunshine Yellow
Gifts : quick to build relationships, friendly & sociable, adaptable, imaginative, skilful presenter
Liabilities : may lack of focus, too casual for some, poor planning and follow-up, bored easily
紅 Fiery Red
Gifts : confident, determined,meets challenges head-on, focused, influencing others
Liabilities : poor listener, can be seen as arrogant, may push too hard, doesn’t wait for feedback
哇哈哈！好可爱的对白，光想象就觉得好好笑了！！！一个每天喃喃话说不停，一个满脸不耐烦在等对方结束话题。。
如果这发生在你身上，而不是我，我就觉得好笑啦。:P
Count yourself lucky that it is happening to you: It’s your PRIVILEGE! *muahahaha*
你很幸运因为这发生在你身上。 这是你的特权！哈哈哈哈…
看到没,看到没！特权哦！别人想要都没有！何其的幸运拥有特权呀~~~~~~哈哈哈！
I wish I dont have that 特权, it makes me HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE, hahaha. 😛
忘了说：‘这也是一种生活情趣呀！’哈哈哈哈
His life is so “spicy” now, thanks to me! Hahahaha…
他的生命是如此的辛辣因为我！哈哈哈…
我也是straight to the point的 人咯 ^^ * High 5*
Yay, high 5! Sure you will also faint when chatting with Mr Mah. hahahha 😛
ck, pity you.. next time when he does that again, just shout at him by saying 你有完没完啊！！？
Life for Beginners, patience can be limited sometimes and some spices can be volatile.. XD
I’ll have you know that CK here himself did the same thing to me when I asked him whether he wanted me to Photoshop a pic for him for this post, and he went on and on about must have four colours lah, and must be these four colours, maybe can google for an image, or whether should include the word “Connect” cos it’s the name of the course…. without answering Y/N to my question… Eh, want the pic or not?
See? He’s also the same! LOL
I will say, that must be your BAD INFLUENCE!!!! hahahah. 😛
Apparantly, both of you are dua kali lima now.. XD this is called 互补 and it spices up your life!
@aibolim: Actually we are both 互互, since we spent so much time on the internet.
@CK: Dunno who influence who first leh… *la la la la la la la*
@Life for Beginners, what is 互互? Can’t understand lah..
Please wait for my next post, then u will know, hahahaha. 😉
My sister and brother in law also like that; one very loso, one very straight. But they get along xtremely well. Gotten married for more than 10 years now still like in honeymoon^^
Wow, thats great!
I need to go and learn some yoga 1st, help to reduce my blood pressure. 😛
To DWP & DID:
责骂是爱 敲打是关心
I hope the yahoo translator knows what I’m talking about. 😛
Hahaha, I get what you mean.
But when I translate the sentence back to english by google translate, this is what i get :
“Beat is concerned about the blame is love” 😛
Methinks you both mean, “Beating is concern; scolding is love.” (Da shi teng; ma shi ai)
Or is it the other way round? 😛
you must be a very nice devil..considering the fact that you’re still so patient with him..can be very annoying leh..since mr mah always beat around the bush, i suggest next time dont have to ask for his opinion..do it first , then only tell him
Ya ya ya, good idea, next time do 1st, then only tell him. hahaha 😉
Hahaha… Very funny… NOT. 😛